Price of TRUST

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim ~

Peace be upon you. :)

It takes years to build trust, but it takes only a few second to destroy it.

Simple said,

Rahsia, secret,sirr. Jika sesuatu perkongsian ditagkan dgn perkataan ini, maka hati-hatilah sahabat.. Jangan sampai terlepas dari mulut kita tentang rahsia. Standard sentence, "simpan tau rahsia ni, ni antara kita dua je." Dan last sekali, orang yang menyuruh kita menyimpan itu sendiri yang membongkarkan rahsia dari kotak perkongsian. Please behave. Ingatlah, ada sebab kenapa sesuatu dikategorikan sebagai secret.

#Price of TRUST, keep it or you'll never be trusted again.

Psst, please remember this guys: 

1.  Jangan mudah mentagkan sesuatu benda sebagai 'rahsia' sekiranya kita sendiri suka bawa mulut bercerita. 
- Why..? : Simple, because the person who listened to you, may hardly securing your secrets.. but when you, yourself exposing it to other people. It just like trampling on your friend's trust. Seriously. 

# if you can't keep your own secret, how then you could guarantee that my secrets are safe with you.

2.  Once, twice. Then it is enough.
- Once, twice you said "ini secret kita" then you expose it by yourself. Its ok, but then.. third time you do it. Please, don't make promise. Don't claim your secret is not safe with me, because if i'm not the one who exposed the secret. Then you did! Because you promised before, "it is only us."

# mind yourself before you put others on fault. Please.

3. No one loves telling their secret.

- No one loves others to know their secret, but we are only human. Sometimes when we couldn't find the solution, we need helps. Help from the person we trust. If you, those who'd been as listeners, have the mentality of "ala, rahsia ni biasa je. tak de masalah nak cite ckit kat orang," then please put yourself on your friend's shoe. And you'll know why is it being a secret. 

# but, please classify the level of confidentiality. Put them into classes. Use your wise judgement to hold/share the secret. If the secrets are something that ashamed oneself, please lock it in the earth's mantle. 

 > Sebelum mengakhiri bicara, jom cek balik: 

Sabda Rasulullah SAW yang bermaksud: Ada 4 perkara, sesiapa yang melakukannya maka ia adalah seorang munafik yang jelas. Sesiapa melakukan satu daripada empat perkara itu, maka ia mempunyai salah satu daripada sifat munafik hingga dia meninggalkannya, iaitu apabila dipercayai ia khianat, apabila bercakap ia berdusta, apabila berjanji ia mungkir dan apabila bertengkar ia mengenepikan kebenaran (menegakkan benang yang basah)

(Hadith Riwayat Bukhari)

Rasulullah SAW bersabda yang bermaksud: Seorang mu'min tidak akan jatuh ke dalam satu lubang dua kali. 

(Hadith Riwayat Bukhari dan Muslim)

> Ingat juga ini:

Daripada Abu Hurairah katanya, Rasulullah SAW bersabda yang bermaksud: Allah sangat gembira menerima taubat seseorang kamu melebihi kegembiraan seseorang yang menemui kembali barangnya yang hilang.

(Hadith Riwayat Muslim)

Wallahua'lam. ^^
*Aman tiada perang*